26 June 2008

The Manipulator - a quick entry

Four years back, I was alleged to be a manipulator. Well, it's kind of true - as I am good at manipulating, brain washing, giving convincing arguments - to get anyone to my side.

I always have believed that one has to have a bit of all those qualities(?), but should never get caught using them. That is the real success. His actions should look normal/natural.

For the same reason, when I was caught, I wasn't very happy about it. The person who did that was the smartest-girl whom I have ever met in my life, a born manipulator, diplomat. And I could see through her mask. So, we were of the same creed - and that was the relief.

Some time later, I ceased to be one. And started to be a raw man - thinking that the whole world is good.

Now, I am back to the old one. Situations forced me to. And I did good too. Writing this much is beyond the limits, let alone giving more details.

Again, the coincidence is that, when I had to be one again, I was meeting her after a long time. (Was it a meeting of manipulators?)

On a different note: A friend of mine is getting married today. It's a European marriage, a little complicated one too, and there aren't anyone around her. I am her ONLY friend in the city. What shall I get her? 

Signing off, Sands.

PS: I am accused of writing too frequent posts, too much of blogging... If it were anyone else, I would have said what I should say. But this person happens to be special!


Hailstone said...

It seems.. complexity of your blog increases. Atleast, I felt so.. Katti koodi varunna pole :)

The Lonely Backpacker said...

what is happening ?

ഗീതാഗീതികള്‍ said...

Sand's honesty is to be really admired! Sands, namaskaaaram.....


Hailstone, melt yourself and add some water to Sand's posts....

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...


Well... what to do. Life is complex ;)


We spoke long.. and you don't need to know anything anymore.. :)


Thanks chechi.. :)
Paavam hailstone.. (ente aniyathikkuttiyaa tto) Avaleyenkilum veruthe vittoode?

A Liberated Soul said...

Frequent posts means frequent thoughts that are worth mentioning on blog. Why not then? :)

ഗീതാഗീതികള്‍ said...

Oh hailstone is your sis?
(I should have guessed. Another stone.....)

Hailstone, I love you. I simply love you...
(Very difficult to be Sand's sis, eh?....)

'Avaleyenkilum veruthe vittoode?'
alla, ingngane chOdikkaan vEnti njaan Sandsne enthu cheythuunnaa???

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...


Well.. What if that person doesn't feel that these thoughts are worth having.. let alone mentioning! ;)

Enthu paranjaalum njan abadhathil chaadum.
Mounam vidwanu bhooshanam! :)

A Liberated Soul said...

Are you looking forward to be a writer some day?

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...


Yes, I do.. some day...

But, why would you ask that?

A Liberated Soul said...

A writer writes what he wants. The rest you should guess.

Sands | കരിങ്കല്ല് said...

You made my day! :)